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Your buds, your bros, the gang, the dudes – whatever you call them, your best friends have been there for you through thick and thin. As they prepare to stand up next to you on what is one of the most important days of your life, you should be prepared to thank them with a groomsmen gift.

These gifts are given to your groomsmen during the rehearsal dinner, immediately after you and your wife-to-be give your speech thanking everyone involved in the wedding.

Can’t think of anything appropriate to give your guys? Here are some suggestions that might work for your group.

• Sports gifts: Let’s face it, there’s only a small fraction of men who don’t appreciate a sports-related gift. The options are plentiful: A round of golf at a local course, a replica jersey of their favorite player or a new piece of equipment for their preferred game. Make each gift a little more personal by tailoring it to their favorite sport, team or player.
• Alcohol gifts: Jack, Jim, Jose and the Captain — gifts of booze (or something related to it) follow sports as a close second to something nearly every guy appreciates. Popular items in this category include beer mugs, flasks, or maybe even a nice bottle of wine for the connoisseur in your life. And, heck, just gifting a classy bottle of alcohol is perfectly fine (and it can be cracked open the next day when you’re all getting ready, if they so feel like it).
• Entertainment gifts: Think back to the movie you and your pal watched together all the time (and subsequently quoted excessively). If you and your college roommate lived to watch “Die Hard,” get him the collector’s set. Same goes for your little bro, who you watched “Star Wars” with over and over again until you drove your mother crazy.
• Gadget gifts: Oh, men and their gadgets. Now, it might be hard to give these gifts on a budget. But if you have the funds, gifts of electronics would sure be welcomed. XM radios, digital cameras (Which can be bought relatively cheaply these days) or a tech accessory like a cool iPhone cover.
• Food gifts: Your groomsmen don’t have to be chefs to love the gift of food. After all, a way to a guy’s heart is through the stomach, right? A gift certificate to a local restaurant is always a good choice (whether you choose the sports bar or the French bistro depends on the personality of the guy), as is a unique blend of gourmet coffee for the guy who needs a shot of java to get his day started.

Best Make Up Tips for the Wedding

Look like a beauty queen on your wedding day following a pre-wedding beauty regime. Here are the moste important wedding make up tips:

• Test-drive your wedding make up. Don’t save that new color of eye shadow for the big day – pop it open at least a week before the wedding and wear it out and about for a day. This way, you’ll know if the new make up stays put through the rigors of the day and whether it’s flattering on your skin tone.
• It’s also a smart idea to do a make-up trial with your wedding beautician, if you’re planning to get your face professionally made up. Wedding make up artists have different styles, and you want to know if yours has a heavy hand (especially if you’re planning to go natural) or uses products incompatible with your complexion. Schedule it at least a month before the wedding so you have time to find a back-up if the artist you first chose wasn’t to your liking.
• Don’t deviate too far from your normal routine for your wedding make up. Sure, you want to look your absolute best on your wedding day, but you also don’t want to look too different than your normal self. After all, that’s who your fiancée fell in love with, isn’t it? Even something as simple as removing eyeglasses can make you look like an entirely different person. Just keep in mind that certain accessories or elements – especially eyeglasses — can really date a wedding photograph. For a timeless look, try not to include anything too trendy in your wedding make up or fashion.

• Choose one dramatic make-up element. Go for a bold red lip or a smoky eye, but not both. You don’t want to look too overdone (or look at your wedding photographs 20 years later and wonder why you chose to look like a clown.) One dramatic statement will make you stand out from the crowd without looking silly.

• Don’t get any procedures done in the days leading up to the wedding. A pre-wedding facial seems like a nice way to relax and beautify on your wedding day, but one wrong chemical or allergic reaction and your face could be as red as Rudolph’s nose. Get a facial at least three to five days prior to the wedding and stick to a manicure or massage at the spa on your wedding day.

• Choose the waterproof make up option. You might not think you’re a crier, but when you’re at the altar in front of your entire family, staring into the eyes of the man you love, the tears might start to flow. Since it’s like you don’t want to look like a raccoon, a waterproof mascara and eyeliner is an absolute necessity.

Did you enjoy the wedding make up tips? Or do you have any further wedding make up tips you want to share? Please leave a comment.

With the sun in the sky and the beautiful backdrop of nature, an outdoor wedding can be a splendid occasion. If you’re planning on tying the knot outdoors, follow these tips for the best chance for a perfect day:

1. Have a back-up plan for your outdoor wedding: We can’t stress this enough. No matter what for time of the year you are planning an outdoor wedding, there is always a chance for rain. Even if no drops actually fall on your ceremony, watching a looming storm from afar while constantly updating Weather.com on your BlackBerry isn’t the best way to spend the morning of your outdoor wedding.

2. Offer your guests comfort: If you’re getting married in the dog days of summer, and the sun is beating down on your outdoor wedding ceremony, help out your guests. Print your programs on paper fans or set up a cooler with icy water bottles at the back of the ceremony. Even set up a table with decorate beverage dispensers, filled with water, lemonade and iced tea (or even champagne punch, if you want to get the party started early).

3. Play it safe: If you’re planning an outdoor wedding reception, talk to your caterer about food safety. There are plenty of risks involved with keeping food exposed to the elements, ranging from the effect of sun on creamy food items to bugs swarming the food.

4. Speaking of bugs … : Citronella candles are a blessing (and not as ugly as they used to be). Place one on each table as part of the centerpiece to keep mosquitoes at bay.

5. Tailor food and drinks to the weather: Spring and summer weddings call for light food, such as cold soups and salads, and cocktails, like mojitos or mint juleps. You want everyone feeling refreshed and satisfied, not heavy and lethargic during your outdoor wedding.

6. Talk to the appropriate authorities. If you’re getting married in a public venue, such as at a park or even in your own backyard, you might need permits for sound and lighting. There could be time and noise restrictions, as well, along with alcohol restrictions. The last thing you want is your party getting shut down before it even really takes off.

7. Wear the right shoes: Heels can get stuck in grass, white shoes can get stained by freshly cut grass. Protect your piggies by placing a runner down the center aisle. You don’t want to dance at your outdoor wedding in wet shoes.

8. Don’t make them squint. A sunset outdoor wedding sounds perfect, doesn’t it? Think about what it feel like when you’re driving into the sun — not so perfect. You and the groom get to stare into each others eyes, but the guests will be trying to avoid the glare of the sinking sun behind you.

I hope you found some helpful tips on planning an outdoor wedding.If you have any more great tips on planning outdoor weddings, please leave a comment.

Now that you’ve determined that hiring a wedding planning would be in everyone’s best interest, how do you find the right wedding planner for you? Pick and choose very carefully — after all, this planner has your wedding in their hands.

Make sure your personalities mesh. Over your engagement period, you’re going to be spending a lot of time together. If you’re a very scheduled person and your planner is pretty laid back, then it’s probably not the best fit. You’ll make yourself crazy continuing to call, e-mail and text until everything gets done.

Make sure your styles mesh, too. Some wedding planners think that all weddings should be grand affairs consisting of speciality lighting, seven-course meals and a live band. That may or may not be in your budget, so you need to find a wedding planner who can envision your slightly smaller (but just as beautiful) wedding without pressuring you to go bigger.

Interview over the phone first. There’s no point in meeting them in person if their fees are too high or you instantly get the feeling that your personalities won’t jive well together.

Ask for references (and use them). A wedding planner’s reputation is everything, so they should be ready and willing to hand over a list of couples who are willing to sing their praises. You can even ask to see photos of weddings they’ve planned (it should give you an idea of their style).

Ask about their connections. A good wedding planner should be well-connected within the industry. While you shouldn’t expect a 50 percent discount on flowers because the planner went to high school with the local florist, a planner who can’t name any local florists — by first name, not just the company’s name — should probably be avoided.

Don’t count out first impressions. In the business industry, looks matter. You want to find a wedding planner who responds to all communication promptly and professionally, has a legitimate office (even if it’s an at-home office) and business cards, and dresses like a professional. Trust your instincts — as we said before, you have to work a lot with this person, so go with your gut.

Some questions to ask during your first wedding planner meeting are:

• Do you have references?
• How do you bill for your services?
• Do you have a list of vendors you work with?
• With a $X budget and my colors of Orange and Blue, what are some decor ideas you have? (This is to see their creativity)
• What type of packages do you offer?
• What hours do you work?
• Do you have an assistant?

Did you find this article on how to find a wedding planer helpful? Do you have any more things to consider when finding a wedding planner? Then please leave a comment.

Brides constantly remark on how surprised they were when they started wedding planning: “Everything costs so much!”

And it’s true. It takes creativity and dedication to plan a beautiful wedding on a budget, especially because all the little items add up incredibly quickly. There are some ways though that you can easily save some cash when wedding planning — and we bet the guests will never be the wiser.

Recycle your decor. All hail the power of the Internet — from www.theknot.com to www.weddingbee.com, brides have never had more resources to purchase wedding decor from other brides. The bride who bought 12 square glass vases for her centerpieces will likely never need them again, so now she’s selling them for half-price to local brides. What a steal! You can even buy your decor brand-new and then attempt to sell afterward. Any cash you make back is a bonus.

Go for a smaller wedding cake. Opting for a two-tiered cake instead of a four-tiered can save a lot of money. And, don’t worry, you can still serve all your guests by cutting up a sheet cake in the same flavor in the back and serving that to the guests. Honestly, they will never know the difference.

Order a white bridesmaid dress. If you’re interested in a simple sheath dress, say for a beach wedding, or a less-complicated strapless A-line, just look at bridesmaid dresses. They cost anywhere from $100-$300 (much less than the $1,500 designer dress you were eyeing!) and can be ordered in white or ivory. If it looks like a wedding dress, then by all standards, it is a wedding dress — even if it was originally meant for bridesmaids.

Get the timing right. You probably already know that May-October is high wedding season, so you’re going to be paying top dollar. But don’t forget that during other times of the years, there are events you’ll have to compete with, such as prom time (April and early May), Christmas and even Valentine’s Day. Late October, early November, January and March are ideal times for savings.

If you can swing it, skip the save-the-dates. Really, won’t everyone know about your wedding anyway? Call the people who you’d think most likely need a save-the-date and ensure they’ve got it penciled on their calendar. This can save a few hundred dollars, depending on which type of card you chose, plus postage.

Speaking of paper products, include a postcard reply instead of an traditional enveloped reply card. You’ll save the money on the envelopes and on the postage.

For florals, give the florist a color scheme instead of particular flowers. Don’t forget to let them know you’re looking to save money, and the florist can pick out the most affordable flowers that fit your color scheme.

Just serve cake. So many couples spend money on extra desserts, but why? Unless you have a vendetta against wedding cake, it’s perfectly acceptable to just stick to that. If you don’t like cake, then skip it — you can probably find a dessert you like for less money. Set it up on tiers that’s reminiscent of a wedding cake, and you’re good to go.

Consider every part of your wedding optional. Once you get the in the mindset that there are certain things you “have” to have or “have” to do, you start spending more money. You don’t NEED a videographer. If you want one, then spend the money.

Every bride’s motto should be “Be Prepared.” OK, so we borrowed it from the Boy Scouts, but it’s a great way to plan your wedding. You never know what’s going to happen on your big day, but it’s easy to fix a lot of minor problems if you’ve thought about it in advance. After all, don’t forget Murphy’s Law: Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong!

So, in that line of thinking, it would behoove a bride to put together a “bridal emergency kit” to tote along to the ceremony and reception venue. Hopefully you won’t need any of these items in your emergency kit, but you never know.

Whether a button breaks or the hair starts frizzing, there should be something in every bridal emergency kit to fix the problem. Hand the bridal emergency kit over to a trusted bridesmaid, friend or relative and make sure they know that it should be available at all times. Leave it in the bride’s changing room at the ceremony site, then make sure a bridesmaid swings by to pick it up for the reception.

The list is easily divided into “the essentials” and “optional,” but it never hurts to bring everything from both lists. If you can find any of these items in sample size, it will help with space issues. Package it all together in a cute tote, and you’ll be good to go!

The essentials in your bridal emergency kit

• Small sewing kit that includes white thread, small scissors and a safety pin
• Lipstick for touchups
• Clear nail polish for stoking runs
• Fingernail clippers for a pesky hangnail
• Earring backs
• Bobby pins to fix that stray strand in the updo
• Hairspray to make sure that strand stays where it’s supposed to
• Eye drops for reducing redness, especially after tearing up during the ceremony
• Anti-nausea pills and headache medicine for any unexpected illness
• Bandaids in case a glass breaks or the bride cuts herself shaving
• Mints or gum so the bride smells minty fresh during the big kiss
• Tissues for mom and grandma’s tears
• Bottle of water in case the tap water isn’t drinkable
• Lint Brush to make sure Fluffy’s hair is brushed aside
• List of vendor’s phone numbers
• List of entire wedding party’s phone numbers
• List of taxi company phone numbers
• List of all family phone numbers
• Dental floss or toothpicks
• Spot remover — you wouldn’t want a spot on that lovely white dress, but test it out in an hard-to-see spot first.
• Extra deodorant to stay smelling fresh
• Bottle of perfume
• Double-sided tape or hemming tape

Optional

• Easy-to-eat snack so the bride doesn’t feel faint. Pretzels or dried fruit are good options.
• Krazy glue for broken heels, jewelry or any other assortment of accessories
• Straws to drink water or other beverages without messing up your lipstick
• Nail polish matching the bride’s fingers and toes
• Lotion
• $20, just in case
• Tampons or pads
• Bug spray, if you are getting married in a mosquito-prone zone
• Iron in case you have a sloppy bridesmaid
• Some quarters for a parking meter or vending machine
• Extra buttons in case one pops off
• Flat shoes so you don’t have to wear heels around the changing room

As with everything else for wedding, there’s a “proper” way to seat people at a wedding ceremony. Get the low-down on how to make seating go smoothly.

• Choose ushers prior to the wedding. An usher is a smaller player when it comes to the bridal party, but it’s still a title of honor. Ushers are usually men, but there’s no rule that says they have to be. Their basic duty is to make sure everyone is seated in comfort and perhaps hand out programs or bubbles. In general, plan for one usher for every 50 guests

If you don’t have anyone special in mind for ushers, it’s relatively common for groomsmen to perform usher duties prior to the start of the ceremony. At some point, though, they have to head up to the front of the venue, so it’s a good idea to have at least one usher dedicated to seating duties to ensure late-comers know where they’re going.

• Choose sides – or not. Traditionally, the bride’s family and friends sit on the left side and the groom’s on the right. (If you forget, just think about who stands on the left and right up at the altar.) But there’s not really any basis for seating people on different sides. In fact, if one side has invited more people than the other, you might want to spread everyone out evenly so it doesn’t look lopsided. Ushers can ask guests if they have a preference on which side to sit. If not, just give them the best view possible.

• Who goes up front? The answer to this is easy – the first few rows are typically reserved for family members (immediate family right up front, extended family just behind them). If you’re concerned about other guests taking those seats, rope them off or place “reserved” signs on the chairs.

Elderly guests should also be up close for maximum viewing potential.

• Seat the immediate family last. Once the ushers start moving the immediate family down, it signals to the guests that the ceremony is about to begin. You can even choose a special song to play while the family is being seated. Immediate family includes the grandparents, parents and siblings of the bride and groom.

The mother of the groom is seated second-to-last, followed by the mother-of-the bride. While the ushers can seat the mothers, it is often done by their sons (a brother of the bride or groom) or even by the groom himself before he heads up to the front of the ceremony.